Friday, June 7, 2024

thoughts

 I wake up at night from the sounds of an alarm somewhere far away, not here, but I hear it, the app on the phone knows where exactly it's happening. Thanks to Iron Dome that knows how to warn the exact direction of the missiles, on the screen I read the names of towns where the alarm is now sounding, if it is in a big city, Iron Dome identifies which neighborhoods it is aimed at, if it wasn't for Iron Dome we would have died here a long time ago.                                                                                                                                                       I can't fall asleep. I don't know if it will progress and reach here as well, I'm waiting. In the meantime, I'm writing beginnings for posts, later I'll forget them and they'll never be written.

I think about my grandmothers, maybe I'll write about them, when I was a child I was almost the only one who had grandmothers, my friends' parents were Holocaust survivors and they didn't have grandmothers, so I didn't notice it, I didn't think about it.

One of my grandmothers came from Germany in 1933, left her home in Berlin with her husband and my mother who was 6 years old at the time, she had no choice. The second grandmother arrived here with her husband and my father who was one year old at the time, in 1924, she was the first Jewish woman to study dentistry at the university in Warsaw, I have already written about them here before, and there is still much to tell.                                                                                                                                                                           Since the seventh of October I have been sleeping with socks because from the stories of the people who were kidnapped and returned, especially the old women, I understood that it was very difficult for them to walk in the tunnels of Gaza barefoot, yes, I have fears that may not be logical, and maybe they are.                                                                                                                                                                                 Later I start reproducing recipes in my head, maybe it will tire me, meatballs, schnitzels, the magician's rice I made yesterday, that doesn't help either. I go through a list of the families and houses on the small street where I lived in the small northern city, I count in my head my friends in Blogland and those who are no longer, and somehow in the end I fall asleep until the next sound in the "Color Red" app which is the alarm app.

44 comments:

  1. Sending love to you and all your beloveds, Yael. I know your voice comes from so many miles away and yet it seems so close when I am reading your words. Grateful for your witnessing voice.

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  2. thank you am.What a wonderful comment and kind words. I'm always insecure about my posts, and glad to have readers like you.

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  3. Sleeping with socks on symbolizes your situation in this dangerous situation. It makes sense. That magician's rice sounds intriguing, have you shared how to make it here? My grandpa was a professional magician so that idea grabbed my attention.

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  4. And I would also like to add that for an anxious person like me it is very difficult to fry an onion for 25 minutes, I am always afraid that it will burn. But I succeed in this challenge.

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  5. Shalom Yael, I appreciate all you have to say. I am so sorry that there is so much for you to feel anxious about these days and I pray things will get better soon. Sending you a hug. Sara

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    1. Thank you Sara, every kind word is greatly appreciated here. Despite the fear and worry there are also good days and moments of joy here, maybe I'll write about that too.

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  6. I hope you do write of your forbearers, Yael. I could take your mind off recipes, and we would love to read. Stay safe.

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    1. Thanks Joanne, I will write about them, there is so much to tell.

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  7. I hope you are able to soothe yourself when attempting to fall asleep. I think reciting recipes is a brilliant idea. Sometimes, when I'm anxious at night and unable to sleep, I envision myself tucked away safely in bed and asleep. I don't know if it makes me tired, but it can quiet the mind a bit. xx

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    1. Bea, I always wonder what happened to the good old method of counting sheep, I've never tried it.

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  8. It makes me sad that you must live in such fear. Thank you for sharing what you are going through. Important for people to see know what is going on as told by someone who is living it. Too many are caught up in protests not understanding what they are protesting… swept up in the latest rage. My prayers are with you, and all those who have suffered so many atrocities. Stay strong and keep your faith.

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    1. Thank you anonymous, I have come to the conclusion that it is impossible to convince with facts today. People cling desperately to their opinions even if they are very wrong,

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  9. Loving grandparents are essential in every family, but after the Holocaust it almost never happened. In 1960 my high school in Melbourne had a family day and of the 120 students in my year, 4 grandparents turned up, 2 of them mine.The rest died in the Holocaust or in refugee camps -hospitals in the late 1940s.

    I hope you have treasured memories and photos of your beloved grandmothers.

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    1. Hels, a whole generation lives without this wonderful thing called grandmothers, how sad.

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  10. I didn't know either of my grandmothers, or grandfathers.
    Yael, we think of you often (and, of course, all the others who are suffering). We had hoped there might have been some serious talk of ceasefire, but I don't think Hamas can be trusted. They need to be 'sorted'.

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    1. Cro, we can't know anything anymore, we live from day to day, now also a big war in the north is coming. we will see what will be.

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  11. I did only know my paternal grandmother, the other grandparents died long before I was born. Now, two of our grandchildren can even remenber one great-grandmother.
    We try to be good grandparents, but it is not always easy.
    After growing up with four brothers, having two sons and three grandsons, I now finally have a granddaughter and am very happy about it.
    I am thinking of you often and I am thankful for the Iron Dome which protects you and your country.
    Hilde in Germany

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  12. Hilde, I am happy for you that you also have a granddaughter, grandchildren are indeed a wonderful thing. Thank you for the support.

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  13. I can't imagine what it must be like to live with the fears that you have to endure. I wake in the night often, but my worries are merely about going to Slovenia soon for my son's wedding! It is nothing in comparison. I hope that this conflict will be brought to an end at some point, but sadly it doesn't seem likely. I don't understand the " politics" of it and just wish that innocent people were not being killed on both sides.
    Stay safe Yael.

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    1. Everything will be fine Frances, don't worry, go and enjoy your son's wedding. When there are no wars here I worry exactly because of things like this, I understand your concern.

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  14. The stress of living in Israel must be tremendous. When will this persecution ever end?
    It's hard being the only democracy in the region.


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    1. Sometimes I wonder what I would think if I watched all this from afar. It's like being in the eye of the storm, most of the time everything is quiet here.

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  15. Long nights full of anxiety. I can understand that nobody there must sleep well anymore. I'd be wearing Sox too.
    Write about your grandparents and your family. It helps us too to know your story

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    1. I've written about them before Linda, I'm afraid it might not be of interest to others.

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  16. I'm sorry you are suffering with such stress that keeps you awake at night, Yael. I hope you are safe soon and peace will come.

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  17. Thank you Ellen. Unfortunately the future does not look rosy here, but we will wait and see.

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  18. I understand that some hostages were found and freed.

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  19. Four who were kidnapped on Saturday morning from a party, one of them, a young girl, is now meeting her mother in a hospital, the mother is terminally ill with cancer. There are still 120 abductees in Gaza, some of them are already dead.

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  20. I'm sure it's hard to live with such constant low-level (or not-so-low-level!) vigilance. I was so happy to see that some hostages were freed alive. It gives me hope for the others.

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    1. There is indeed hope Steve. But also uncertainty about everything.

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  21. Praying for your safety has become a daily part of my life. I have a sweet memory of my grandmother(my mother's
    mother).Each year she would stay with us for a few days.If we needed them she would knit hats
    scarves, sweaters and
    mittens.There's something special about having things handmade
    Just for you, Mary

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    1. It's wonderful that you have such beautiful memories of your grandmother Mary, thank you for everything.

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  22. My thoughts are with you and like Steve I hope that more hostages will be freed very soon.

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  23. Dear Yael, I am fairly new here, come over from Johns. I would love to read about your grand parents x

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    1. Kath, you are welcome, if you type "grandmother" in the search box on my blog you can read about my grandmothers. I may write more in the future.

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  24. Yael, praying for you and Israel in this trying time.
    I have worn socks to bed most of my life. My wife thinks I am odd because I do. I googled it and it seems people who wear socks to bed fall asleep faster than those who don't.

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  25. Jack,Thank you. What an interesting comment, interesting that Google also has something to say about sleeping with socks :) If possible, I would also sleep with shoes...

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  26. You have made me think of my German grandparents. I have always felt that I have half a family, because I never got to meet them. I remember food parcels arriving and mother was happy that she had some German food to remind her of home. . . . Your resilience and the will to carry on, is admirable.

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  27. Meanqueen, even a few memories of grandparents are something that can be cherished. Good thing you have them.
    I don't think I'm particularly brave, this is life here and it is what it is. Thank you.

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  28. Sorry to hear you are an extra worrying time , Yael. to be on alert for so lomg is debilitating.
    I like to hear of your family , good memories are to be cherished.
    I onlyremember my maternal greandmother, the rest were dead by the time I was a year old. But I do have good memories of her, she was a tailoress and taught me a lot.
    As I mentioned when you talked of your grandchildren recently, I am not lucky enough to have grandchildren, so I do not have to worry for them also.
    Stay safe and hope for a brighter future, nothing lasts for ever.
    Kathy xx

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  29. Thank you Kathy for always leaving heartwarming comments here. If you write the word grandmother in the search box on the right side of the blog, you can read more about my family.

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